5 important soft skills that can change your personality image

Dr. Zahaid Abas Sabzwari
4 min readMar 29, 2021

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Do you know any good ones?

If he is?

He will be skilled in soft skills!

Soft skills are behaviours, habits and ways of building relationships with others. The world is an ever-changing phenomenon. Individuals with specialized behaviours are preferred either in personal or business affairs. Skills like decision making, communication, presentation, manners and etiquette, confidence, dealing with teams and seniors, convincing, conflict management, stress management and many more can ease lives and at the same time absence of these skills can push you back as Peggy Klaus author of business books said,

“Soft skills get little respect but they will make or break your career”

As life and business trends are changing, human behaviours and habits are turning into new directions. There was a fashion of hard business skills. But now modern business leanings stress soft skills. Soft skills development changes business revenues and value. Anyone may be highly educated and knowledgeable but it is not sure to help these to raise his position but soft skills can upgrade him in any field of challenge. Most of the time we meet different people and feel different about them, it is due to their soft skill management. If someone is pretty but bad behavior will not be respected and at the same time if one is not beautiful but skilled in soft skills will be preferred. Where wealth and relations never work soft skill matter.

Here are 5 top soft skills that can change the image and develop personality into high rank.

Decision Making is the most important soft skill that works wonder. Many people fail in their personal and professional life because they are unable to decide on a time. They depend on others and they fail. It is well said,

“Bad decision is better than not to decide”.

To be good in this skill, one should start to decide in every matter independently. Maybe there will be some consequences of those decisions but the experience of bad decisions makes one more strong and confident.

Time management is another important soft skill that can change your life. Most of the time, in the office we face situation because of a lack of time management. Seniors expect delivery of task in time and it is missed because we cannot manage it as the task require time. Even in personal life, we miss promises and expectations of near and dear ones. Time management skill can be developed by prioritizing our task of the day. There may be a list of the task but all task does not require the same preference. So to differentiate between most important and important is necessary. The urgent task needs special time management.

Work-life balance is a very famous soft skill that can make you respected wherever you are. People around us have a passion for work and they burn midnight oil but they lose in some areas of a professional and personal life because of imbalance of their work-life routine. I have met many business leaders who are much successful in their business profits and business growth but when they enter the threshold of their home they have to face a problem. Families and friends always complain about not getting their attention. On one side of the situation, they are successful but the dark side of the picture is that they are unable to balance their life. Life does not need money all the time. It needs emotion. Relaxation, attention and pleasure. Work-life balance is a fine sophisticated skill that makes a popular and balanced personality. To improve this skill one should plan his hours and work strictly on that schedule that can balance him in professional and personal life.

Confidence is a soft skill that can develop your future. It is a fact that half of the success in life is only confidence. If your pocket is full of confidence then you do not need any other coin to put in. It is usually said with a loud tone,

“With confidence, you have won before you have started.”

Nothing can help you more in life than confidence. All ventures of life can be faced through confidence. The absence of this skill will push you towards failure. Confidence can be developed through practice. One should realize that he can do every task. He can do everything through courage. The blessing will be there if he may get the company of brilliant people who always encourage and pave the way to move ahead.

How to deal tough boss is a skill that can save you from the bad end of a good job. In a professional environment, it happens that a tough boss comes as a villain. People who do not know this skill remain in depression and stress. The skill of how to deal with a difficult boss needs a deep understanding of the needs and concerns of the boss. One should read the expectations of his boss and then try to cope with that. For this purpose, one should go into the shoes of his boss. He should understand the dares of his seniors.

These soft skills can bring prosperity to the mental and professional health of anyone who needs peace of mind. To be excel in all these skills continuous practice with concentration is required. A company of positive people will add value to learning these skills.

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Dr. Zahaid Abas Sabzwari
Dr. Zahaid Abas Sabzwari

Written by Dr. Zahaid Abas Sabzwari

IDr Zahid Abbs sabzwari. IProfessional pychiatrist ,coroprate trainer and social scientist.works as contentent writer and copy writer.

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